Give that shy guy a chance.

It might turn out better than you expect. Studies show that who we think is the “best catch” isn’t always the best partner. People who are skilled in social situations are less satisfied and committed in relationships than those who are awkward. So while that goofy guy in accounting isn’t Romeo, chances are he’ll be a happy, loyal hubby.

I found the above somewhere online and thought there was a lot of truth in it. Perhaps the reason those "best catch" people aren't as happy in relationships is because they are wondering if they are with the second best, meaning that someone "better" or more suited to them is still out there, waiting to meet them.

The less skilled person is happy knowing that someone loves them and is willing to put forth the effort into maintaining the relationship. I can speak from experience.

And remember, that shy, awkward guy (or girl) in high school? Remember the bookish "nerds" who did well in academics but were overlooked by the more popular girls because they were "nerds" (insert your favorite word replacement-you know what I'm talking about)? And let's not be sexist here; girls can be shy, awkward, and nerdish too (again, I speak from experience). The high school nerd grows up to own the company that the jocks and cheerleaders later report to as employees. Not always, of course. Some of the nerds become doctors, scientists, academics, writers, the list goes on. It works the other way too. The shy, awkward high schooler can be the janitor, clerk -typist, or other so-called "menial" peon in any organization. You might be the one to bring them out of their shell and help them find their inner beauty.

If you just can't see yourself with someone who is shy and awkward (this can be at any age, by the way), be nice. We have feelings too. I'm a firm believer in karma: what goes around, comes around.

Valentine's Day is coming up. If you're single give that shy, awkward guy or gal a second look. They may be "The One".